Be happy with those who are happy, and weep with those who weep. Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all! Romans 12:14-16 (NLT)
There’s nothing like being at a baseball game. The atmosphere is almost electric. The food is fabulous, and the comradery of everyone being there for the same reason is priceless.
We usually sit in “the nose bleed” section. It isn’t a bad place to be in Nationals Park, but it does mean we’re often seated with fans from the opposing team. But then, so are they, right?!
We’ve never once had any trouble with ugliness when attending a game. Why? Maybe it’s because we’re all focused on cheering for our players. We don’t waste our breath or our time fussing about the other team. We scream with excitement over our team’s successes and get loud with encouragement when they are struggling.
But there are times when tragedy happens too. We were there when Adam Eaton tore his ACL beating out a ball to first base. The entire stadium knew it was bad as soon as his foot hit the bag and he went down.
Everything went quiet. A heavy silence filled the air as we all took one collective breath and held it. We watched as the trainers, coaches, and managers ran onto the field. The players for both teams stood side by side on the fringes. After what seemed like forever, Adam was taken off the field. He was out for the remainder of the season.
Why am I telling you this and what does it have to do with us as Jesus-followers?
Opportunities for celebrating alongside, cheering for, and crying with those around us are often overlooked in the quest to be who we’re created to be. As a Christian community, we spend far too much of our resources, energy, and time on being the best we can be and leaving little margin for being interrupted by the successes, needs, or hurts of those around us.
We criticize, complain about, and categorize others without ever trying to understand their perspective. I’ve watched angry explosions of words spread like a deadly infection of gangrene as others liked and shared their spew of hatred on social media platforms.
We’ve begun to place such a high value on our own thoughts, feelings, and understandings, we have actually come to feel justified when…
We discount other’s hurts and we belittle their struggles.
Superiority quenches all compassion as we call them names and fume over their choices.
Instead of praying God’s grace and Holy Spirit’s healing for the broken places in their lives, we delight in their sorrows; all because they do not think as we think. We would never say it, but the truth is…
We see no value in them. We see no value in their lives.
And this breaks their Creator’s heart. It grieves His Spirit. And it is a slap in the face of all Jesus Christ did and gave to be in relationship with them. Yes! Them!
We have all sinned. We all need Jesus to save us. None of us see from the LORD’s perspective perfectly. We all need grace. We all need hope. We all need love. We all have hurts and need someone to understand we’re not trying to make a mess of our lives or anyone else’s.
Today’s verses remind us to celebrate when others celebrate and cry when others cry. To do that, we must first see them.
AND…
We must ask Holy Spirit to help us answer some hard questions.
Am I present in the lives of others? There to celebrate and cry? There to cheer? There to encourage? There to comfort? Am I there?
Do I genuinely celebrate when good things happen to others, or do I secretly wonder why they have received the blessing of whatever it is they’re celebrating?
Do I genuinely hurt when others are hurting, or do I secretly think they need to “pull up their big girl panties” and get over it?
Do I ignore the celebrations and/or hurts of others because I don’t want to be bothered with the personal discomfort or inconvenience it will require?
Are there times I secretly hope things will go badly for someone? Do I justify my lack of compassion for their situation because I have decided they deserved it?
Do I think the world could be a better place if everyone would just see things from my point of view?
If you’re like me, seeing these things written on the page are easy to recognize as thoughts and actions that bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit. The thing is, we have to recognize it in ourselves before we will apply 1st John 1:9 and begin the cleansing process. We won’t ask for help until we acknowledge we need it!
Next week we will conclude the Learning From Baseball series.
Between Then and Now…
1 Read your Bible. You might want to read the book of Jude this week. There is only one chapter in Jude, so read it daily. Ask Holy Spirit to help you understand and apply what you read. Ask Him to help you remember what you read after you put down your Bible and begin your day.
2 Exercise. Walk at least a few minutes every day. If you can get outside, even better! Look for evidence of God’s presence and blessings in your day. Every good gift comes from Him. (James 1:17)
3 Pray. Tell God the things you love about Him (this is praise). Thank God for the good things in your life (this is thanksgiving). Ask Him to help others (this is intercession). Ask Him to help you and then use what He gives you!
LORD, You are love. Help us to see You and the evidence of Your love in our lives. Then help us to reflect Your love in the way we see and interact with the people You put in our lives each day. Help us to see beyond the surface to the person inside. Help us to truly celebrate with and cry alongside one another. Humble our hearts so we will live in harmony with You and with others. Amen.
Digging Deeper:
Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the way you live. Remember, he has identified you as his own, guaranteeing that you will be saved on the day of redemption. Get rid of all bitterness, rage, anger, harsh words, and slander, as well as all types of evil behavior. Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you. Ephesians 4:29b-32 (NLT)
If you have not yet met Jesus, you can meet Him today. He created you. He loves you. He wants you to be a part of His family. I encourage you to step into the life He created you to live. You will still have the troubles of this world, but you will no longer be facing them alone. I’m praying for you! https://peacewithgod.net/mobile/?utm_source=Microsoft&utm_medium=CPC&utm_term=HowToGoToHeaven&utm_campaign=USPWGMobileSearchMic
Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright ©1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, a Division of Tyndale House Ministries, Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.
Fun Facts:
Nats fans celebrate each runs with what has become a traditional NATS cheer: N! A! T! S! NATS! NATS! NATS! Woooo! I’m sorry I’m unable to show you the motions, but you can be sure I participate with voice and actions after every single run. Yes, even at home.
